So I rest my case.
Whatever I do is purpose driven. In this case the purpose is to attain health and happiness.
Health is about diet and exercise.
Happiness is about living in gratitude and spending below my means.
No money is despairing.
Oxford English Dictionary’s definition of “happy” is a little more helpful: “Feeling or showing pleasure or contentment.”
- Happiness is a state, not a trait; in other words, it isn’t a long-lasting, permanent feature or personality trait, but a more fleeting, changeable state.
- Happiness is equated with feeling pleasure or contentment, meaning that happiness is not to be confused with joy, ecstasy, bliss, or other more intense feelings.
- Happiness can be either feeling or showing, meaning that happiness is not necessarily an internal or external experience, but can be both.
There are many different theories of happiness, but they generally fall into one of two categories based on how they conceptualize happiness (or well-being):
- Hedonic happiness/well-being is happiness conceptualized as experiencing more pleasure and less pain; it is composed of an affective component (high positive affect and low negative affect) and a cognitive component (satisfaction with one’s life);
- Eudaimonic happiness/well-being conceptualizes happiness as the result of the pursuit and attainment of life purpose, meaning, challenge, and personal growth; happiness is based on reaching one’s full potential and operating at full functioning (AIPC, 2011).
Limerence is considered as a cognitive and emotional state of being emotionally attached to or even obsessed with another person, and is typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings—a near-obsessive form of romantic love.
The only real way to end an episode of limerence is to be 100% sure that a romantic relationship with the desired person is impossible. This requires either 1. a firm, clear and irreversible rejection from the crush or 2. the Limerent loses all hope that a romantic relationship will ever become reality.
In long episodes of limerence, the LO can often engage in a “hot and cold” behavior, where they never fully commit to the Limerent, but also never firmly rejects them.
In effect, this keeps the Limerent trapped and unable to move on. Every time they’re are about to give up, the LO drops a few more hints that “maybe now I’m ready” and spikes up their interest again.
Of course, this also depends on the personality and experience of the Limerent. Some realize quickly that there is no hope in pursuing a relationship, so their episode ends quickly. Others might be too hung up to see the obvious, and keep manipulating themselves into thinking that there’s still a chance, if only they tried harder.
----------------------I have second thoughts letting Els go. No need a dramatic ending. Remember the mute guard dog. Don't say, just do. After all I already captured the Walled City. I already made the right moves. Just flow. That's what she is doing.
Most importantly I should be operating from the point of strength. I should not concede.
Be a Fuzzy Thinker. As a Fuzzy Thinker I should be flexible. It doesn't cost me anything to be a troll. That's what a troll does. He is a nuisance. I must understand that I am a fox and she is a rabbit. One is a predator, the other is a prey. Two different species.
She played her game and I play mine. Along the way I am making progress. The thrill is to subdue a pussy.
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I just punked Aush. Power is either given or taken. I can choose to give or take back. That is my power as a Shokunin Kurina.
#traxxfm Superb choices of songs buddy. You are still my Best DJ of the Year 2019. Tell me, what do you want as your present?
Tq my man
Hey bud.. Looks cool.. But I want a black sweater like els. Hahahhaha size L hahahahahhaha
Ok got it WhatsApp me at 0196433888, I want to keep your number
Sorry bro... All are way above my budget hahaha. Next time maybe.
Another opportunist. I'm not going to spend on a dude more than I spend on a pussy. He should have taken my offer. It's a damn good T-shirt
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